Here I am, 5 a.m and writing a blog post! CLEARLY I AM OUT OF MY COMFORT ZONE! It's funny how just a few hours ago I was discussing the book "Who Moved My Cheese" with my partner, and a few minutes ago I found out that I am suffering from the same symptoms the heroes of the book were suffering from! Reality Check! A phone call may be the reason for my push towards my new cheese station!
I might sound extremely understandable for many of you who haven't read this book, that's why I am shedding a light on it. It is one of the most amazing books that has a life-lasting effect on a person.
Now let me get back to track... WHO CHANGED MY COMFORT ZONE??? and a simple direct answer to that strong question is: ME! I am the only one responsible for changing my reality. Most people cannot even realize they are out of their comfort zone until they reach a breaking limit! But let me ask one question: what makes our comfort zone so brightful and happy??? after all, its routine, boring, no room for creativity nothing new to do!!
when we are faced with many life changing events, we tend to back off and retreat to our own safe place, however when that safe place is not safe anymore what should we do? we go into depression, we sit there crying our eyes out wishing for some magical moment where everything is just fine as it used to be! in other words, we are doing nothing! we're not moving! we're not accepting! we're letting ourselves drift away from our own selves! that's when a problem starts to emerge!
Why dont we look at this from another perspective? let me try it out....
OK, so my comfort zone has been affected with the "Change Disease". I am entering a new life, I don't find the support I want, I am doing all the things that I don't like.. a new style, a new way of thinking... lost many friends, lost social stability..Facing self-degradation .. mmmmm... Fine! All that will create my new comfort zone which includes my new way of living with a partner, adapting to the way of thinking, God will never remove a person from your life unless someone else is coming, a new social life is awaiting ahead of me at the end of this tunnel.. I am being molded into a new person, whose old comfort zone is not affective anymore and in a very strong need of a new one that will cover all the new areas of change!
When change hits us bad, we should react as harsh as possible! We should do something other than deny it! Accept it, change it, work on it! Find your own way out! Light is at the end of the tunnel but it is turned off, Move your feet and light that thing!!!!! Create your own happiness and don't wait for others to do that!! Remember, you are the only one responsible for the way your life turns out to be! Make it worth watching :)
PS: Special Thanks to the One and Only who is an ongoing inspiration for me... <3
I might sound extremely understandable for many of you who haven't read this book, that's why I am shedding a light on it. It is one of the most amazing books that has a life-lasting effect on a person.
Now let me get back to track... WHO CHANGED MY COMFORT ZONE??? and a simple direct answer to that strong question is: ME! I am the only one responsible for changing my reality. Most people cannot even realize they are out of their comfort zone until they reach a breaking limit! But let me ask one question: what makes our comfort zone so brightful and happy??? after all, its routine, boring, no room for creativity nothing new to do!!
when we are faced with many life changing events, we tend to back off and retreat to our own safe place, however when that safe place is not safe anymore what should we do? we go into depression, we sit there crying our eyes out wishing for some magical moment where everything is just fine as it used to be! in other words, we are doing nothing! we're not moving! we're not accepting! we're letting ourselves drift away from our own selves! that's when a problem starts to emerge!
Why dont we look at this from another perspective? let me try it out....
OK, so my comfort zone has been affected with the "Change Disease". I am entering a new life, I don't find the support I want, I am doing all the things that I don't like.. a new style, a new way of thinking... lost many friends, lost social stability..Facing self-degradation .. mmmmm... Fine! All that will create my new comfort zone which includes my new way of living with a partner, adapting to the way of thinking, God will never remove a person from your life unless someone else is coming, a new social life is awaiting ahead of me at the end of this tunnel.. I am being molded into a new person, whose old comfort zone is not affective anymore and in a very strong need of a new one that will cover all the new areas of change!
When change hits us bad, we should react as harsh as possible! We should do something other than deny it! Accept it, change it, work on it! Find your own way out! Light is at the end of the tunnel but it is turned off, Move your feet and light that thing!!!!! Create your own happiness and don't wait for others to do that!! Remember, you are the only one responsible for the way your life turns out to be! Make it worth watching :)
PS: Special Thanks to the One and Only who is an ongoing inspiration for me... <3
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